Tonight was really lovely. I have a group of women friends who've been meeting as a group regularly for at least 20 years, and also individually, and some of us much earlier than that. Tonight they were at my house for supper. We've seen each other through deaths and births, marriages and divorces. Right now is a good time--peoples' children are having weddings, babies, jobs, whatever. All of us I think feel a sense of the job being done, in a way, and ourselves set free. I'm the only one who has retired, but neither the oldest nor the youngest (ages span at least 20 years).

Tonight the conversation turned to abortion (which several of use have had, though not me--but I've had a miscarriage, which is similar and different in big ways) and how the world will change if Roe v Wade is overturned. Some of us were "footsoldiers in the sexual revolution" but others were married as virgins. Some had had abortions, others not. One remembered her Catholic mother telling her she could not come home pregnant, and I remember my mother's kindness to a possibly pregnant 15-year old me (she handled it better than I would now, and think of her generation).

Food was wonderful, and flowers--white camellias, yellow forsythia, the last daffodils in vases. Good wine, good times. Friends are the icing on the cake of life.

AND they liked my pink wall:


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From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


If you live long enough, you eventually inherit the good stuff.

But look at the ciy you live in, speaking of *jealous*

Although when I lived in Berkeley, it was in an apartment that had prettier architecture than this...plus I could see the Golden Gate out my back window. Sigh.

Still, appreciate the compliment.
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From: [identity profile] masqthephlsphr.livejournal.com


I think I'd rather live somewhere where I could afford a beautiful home like yours than live in a city where it's me and my cats in one room together and I can't park anywhere.

But that's just me. ; )

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Well, there's plenty of places like this, in the South at least. If you went to an even smaller town, houses are cheaper, older, prettier, but I can't say much for the interaction with the people there, unless you were born there.
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From: [identity profile] masqthephlsphr.livejournal.com


Oh, I know...I take SF utterly for granted when it comes to atmosphere and politics, because I get so irritated with how inconvenient and expensive it is to live in this town.

Know any places where people are pinko liberals but the cost of living is cheap?

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