This was not a nice day.

I went to work for the Red Cross on an apartment fire*--21 people, mostly nice young students but a few teachers, lost everything. Only one had renter's insurance. One person  lost a cat.

My son's partner's stepmother died. She was my age and had pancreatic cancer. She was one of the brightest, happiest people I've ever known, a person who made the world blossom. I'll miss her so much.

My housesitter says he can't come back anymore because my house is haunted and he's  had kidney stones, back problems, and emotional breakdowns while staying here.

I shouldn't even post all this...apologies!

*The f%$#king apartment management offered to let the burned-out tenants stay in empty units--if they'd sign a new 6 months or year lease! And there weren't any fire alarms or sprinklers--they survived only because the firemen woke them up!!! How much sleaze is possible?!

From: [identity profile] kalimeg.livejournal.com


Great Heavens! What an imaginative young man!

Guess you need to find someone with less...time on his hands.

:)

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


He said it was Buddhist ghosts that didn't like him. He's just your normal bipolar ADD crossdresser with two blind parents--I'm sure it's my Buddha statue that's causing all his problems.

Actually, I know he's having a bad time, and staying alone in a strange neighborhood wasn't a good thing for him. But I suspect the evil vibes came from the missionary next door, not my little Buddha.
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From: [personal profile] usedtobeljs


Oh no, how sad on so many levels. :-( But of course you should share if it helps at all!

[hugs you, and sends you light]
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From: [identity profile] masqthephlsphr.livejournal.com


If you can't tell your troubles to your friends, who can you tell them to?

{{{HUGS}}}

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks. It's strange how all the bad stuff comes at once. But I really can't complain--it's all really been bad for other people, not me.

Even the haunting--the house seems to like me very much. I've had problems in other places, but I've been here 20 years, and it's felt warm and safe.

From: [identity profile] ngakmafaery.livejournal.com


...wow, hard day....at least in tibetan buddhism you get a lot of extra merit for all the help you've given...

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


The weird thing about the housesitter was that he said the problem with the house is the Buddhist ghosts!


From: [identity profile] ngakmafaery.livejournal.com


...huh, I used to be considered an expert in that stuff, cleaning up properties etc., but since I got cooked, I don't do it anymore...good luck witth it, and maybe a good lama could help...

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


I've had lamas in my house and they haven't noticed anything, nor have I. I think this guy has problems of his own, not the house, but I could be wrong. Next time we have a lama in town, I'll ask him to come by and see what he thinks. I may have one living here for a while--won't need a house sitter, then!

From: [identity profile] midnightsjane.livejournal.com


My deepest sympathies on the loss of your friend.
You've had a tough day, so feel free to vent to us...that's what friends are for, after all.
**BIG hugs**

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks! I know you've been through many, many days much harder than this--but it was amazing how it all piled up.

At least there was a nice, hopeful Obama speech at the end. Hope it does the whole world good.


From: [identity profile] midnightsjane.livejournal.com


Sometimes it just takes that one extra thing to make the whole pile collapse, doesn't it?

I watched Obama's speech too. He is so inspiring; just what we all need in these times.

From: [identity profile] carrie-ryan.livejournal.com


Oh I'm so sorry! JP and I both are both so sad and thinking of everyone!

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks, Carrie. Doug and Theo will appreciate your thoughts. I should have sent an email--will do that anyway.

From: [identity profile] mummm.livejournal.com


Wow! That's the worst, saddest post I've seen today. I'm so sorry!

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks. Didn't mean to spread the gloom, but appreciate everyone's kindness.

From: [identity profile] jp-davis.livejournal.com


Ugh, how horrid. I'm so sorry to hear about his stepmother. How is he holding up?

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks. I should have sent an email to the family before posting here--just got really tired at the end of the day.

Doug's fine, I think--he prefers denial,is my guess. Theo's going back to be with him today. It was expected, since she'd gone into the hospital Sunday.

From: [identity profile] rebekahroxanna.livejournal.com


I'm so sorry about the stepmother. How horrible.

Your housesitter sounds like a hoot.

I think a bad lawyer would have a field day with the apt owner.

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks. I'm hoping the perfect lawyer will find them.

From: [identity profile] zoe-1418.livejournal.com


Awful about the apartment fire; worse about management's attitudes and neglect. I hope there will be a major lawsuit.

Cozy up to your Buddhist ghosts and let them lead you to a new housesitter...

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


I'm hoping for the best (worst?) from lawyers--I see they still haven't determined the cause of the fire, and I'm suspecting electrical since it spread through attics.

Not sure how practical my ghosts are, but hopefully they will at least not interfere!

From: [identity profile] anomster.livejournal.com


Of course you should post about it. Isn't that what we're here for? Well, part of it, anyway. No need to apologize.

That's horribly irresponsible of the apt. management--probably criminally irresponsible. They shouldn't be in any position to offer terms to the tenants, & I hope the courts won't let them. I'm glad none of the people died, & I'm sorry to hear about the cat.

The housesitter's delusions (don't know what else to call them) could have something to do w/his neuro/mental problems. I hope he's getting treatment.

Condolences to you, your son, & his partner on the death of his stepmother. She sounds like an amazing person! Pancreatic cancer is a crappy way to go. It's 1 of the scariest & most depressing things I've read about in my medical editing career.

And big hugs to you. May your family & faith comfort you.

From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com


Thanks! Support from friends is what makes stuff like that bearable. Mostly, actually, it's really much worse for other people, but it's hard to see it happen.
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