Yes, you see why my mother decided not to allow our cat to meet with boys. We didn't want to spay a cat, and when she grew she became very beautiful (she is white, it's a pity that I haven't her picture to show) and all friends told us, "If you will get kittens please give us one". So we asked a veterinarian, but she said that our cat was too old for first time and could die. So we left this idea.
Only sometimes we turned her admirers out.
This boy on whom my mother threw cold water sat on the windowsill 3 days. It was a funny and sad show to see them how they mewed to each other through window glass, we even called them "Romeo and Juliet", but you understand, we couldn't let them join each other.